This is basically the opposite version of my last post. Firstly, I want to say a big thank you to everyone that took out the time to read 5 COMMON MISTAKES GUYS MAKE THAT GIRLS HATE, some of you even enjoyed it so much you requested that I do the ladies version, Well it’s here so you’re welcome *insert smiley face*.
As we discuss the mistakes girls make that guys hate, you’ll notice that there are some actions that are common to both genders. Meaning that as a girl, you can possess some of the same characteristics that can make a guy seem less attractive to you, making you seem less attractive to a guy.
Therefore, queens, without further ado, lets pay attention to these common mistakes that you are probably already making or the ones that you should avoid in order not to irritate your crush/partner/future love of your life:
- Being overly demanding:
Let’s face it girls, some of us are very hard to please and this can make you seem too needy/problematic to a guy. When you ask for too much of everything, his time, money, space, etc. It can become frustrating for him because he will gradually start to believe that nothing he does will ever be enough for you. This can cause him to lose interest in the relationship. When you spend time together, try to make the most out of it and create good memories, take pictures, make videos, make him laugh, instead of focusing on something he did wrong. Now don’t get me wrong, you should absolutely confront him when he does something you don’t like but don’t drag it, give him space to apologize and let it go. And if it is something you know you cannot let go of then save everyone the stress, break it off and start finding new ways to move on.
- Impatience/Lack of understanding:
This is a serious one, guys don’t fancy girls who think of themselves alone. If you don’t take the time to understand him, to figure out how his mind works, what he likes and doesn’t like, you’ll end up placing your needs above his. Also, guys are not like us, if they are in the same age group as you, sometimes they might think and act slightly less immature than you. Patience is truly a virtue in cases like this, you might need to spell out some things for him, don’t expect him to read your mind. Be kind and understanding, put his own feelings into consideration, that is the best way you can truly care for him.
- Low self-esteem:
It is true that confidence is attractive. You can’t expect someone to love you when you don’t love yourself, it’ll be difficult and the relationship will very be confusing for the both of you. Take some time to know who you are, inside and out, before deciding to enter a relationship. Once you are able to accept you for you, you can better manage your insecurities and you’ll find that you no longer compare yourself to others, therefore you’ll know your value and it will be difficult for a guy to see you as anything less.
Lying does not look good on any gender, to be honest, if you give him reason to lose his trust in you, it’ll be hard for you to gain it back. The truth might be bitter but it is way better than lying because you’ll need another lie to cover it up and another one to cover up the previous lie and another and another and so on and by the time you get caught, it’ll be too late. You’ll end up looking stupid so please just don’t do it.
- Poor hygiene:
Lastly, you’re a lady, why should you even have poor hygiene in the first place? Your crush won’t notice you, your partner will be ashamed of you, your friends will be ashamed of you, you too will be ashamed of yourself and it will end in tears. You need to take care of yourself, be clean everywhere, at all times.
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